Rufus and his mother

Simon of Cyrene's son and wife

The early churchDisciple1st century AD

Rufus was the son of Simon of Cyrene, the man who was forced to carry Jesus' cross. Rufus and his mother later became known in the early church, and Paul sends them greetings in Romans, where he also calls Rufus' mother his own mother.

Family

Key events

The Father's Carrying of the Cross

Rufus' father Simon of Cyrene was forced by Roman soldiers to carry Jesus' cross to Golgotha. Mark identifies Simon as the father of Alexander and Rufus.

21They forced a passerby, Simon of Cyrene, who was coming in from the country—the father of Alexander and Rufus—to carry his cross.
Καὶ ἀγγαρεύουσιν παράγοντά τινα Σίμωνα Κυρηναῖον ἐρχόμενον ἀπʼ ἀγροῦ, τὸν πατέρα Ἀλεξάνδρου καὶ Ῥούφου, ἵνα ἄρῃ τὸν σταυρὸν αὐτοῦ.

Paul's Greeting to Rufus

In the closing of Romans, Paul sends greetings to Rufus, whom he calls 'the chosen one in the Lord.' This suggests that Rufus was a well-known and respected believer in the church at Rome.

13Greet Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother, who has been a mother to me as well.
ἀσπάσασθε Ῥοῦφον τὸν ἐκλεκτὸν ἐν κυρίῳ καὶ τὴν μητέρα αὐτοῦ καὶ ἐμοῦ.

Rufus' Mother as Paul's Mother

Paul also greets Rufus' mother and calls her his own mother, showing that she had shown him maternal care and hospitality, perhaps during his missionary journeys.

13Greet Rufus, chosen in the Lord, and his mother, who has been a mother to me as well.
ἀσπάσασθε Ῥοῦφον τὸν ἐκλεκτὸν ἐν κυρίῳ καὶ τὴν μητέρα αὐτοῦ καὶ ἐμοῦ.