1 TimothyChapter 3

Here is a trustworthy saying: whoever aspires to the office of overseer desires a noble task.
An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
not given to drink, not violent, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money,
managing his own household well, keeping his children obedient with all dignity.
For if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how can he care for the church of God?
He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil.
He must also have a good reputation with those outside, so that he does not fall into disgrace and into the devil's trap.
Deacons likewise are to be worthy of respect, not double-tongued, not indulging in much wine, not greedy for dishonest gain,
holding the mystery of the faith with a clear conscience.
They too must first be tested; then, if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons.
The women likewise are to be worthy of respect, not slanderers, but sober and faithful in everything. [Footnote: Or Their wives; the Greek word can mean either women (deacons) or wives.]
A deacon must be the husband of one wife, managing his children and his own household well.
For those who serve well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus.
I am writing you these things, hoping to come to you soon.
But if I am delayed, you may know how people ought to conduct themselves in God's household, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of the truth.
Beyond all question, the mystery of godliness is great: He was revealed in the flesh, vindicated by the Spirit, seen by angels, proclaimed among the nations, believed on in the world, taken up in glory. [Footnote: Greek Who; some later manuscripts read God.]